Hi, 9 months ago my boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me, it was never the perfect relationship but I never thought that it would actually end. He had moved to England with work but was home most weekends. 2 months after we broke up he took his new girlfriend home, she is a girl that he works with which leads me to believe that he had been seeing her before we split up. At present he is still with her. To say that I was heartbroken is an understatement infact I am still very much heartbroken. I have meet a few guys since but nothing lasted anything more than a few dates mainly because I cant get my ex out of my system. I still break down when I think of him with anyone else, Christmas and the new year was very difficult as he was home with his girlfriend. Will I ever get him back and if not will I ever get over him and meet someone else? At my age I feel like time is running out for my chance to get married and start a family.